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Aug. 10th, 2000 11:33 pmuntouched = never really thought about it/"sure why not"
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1. “fucking machines”
2. BDSM
3. penetrative sex [more graphic than not; with nouns like ‘cock’ as opposed to euphemisms like ‘length’.]
4.
5.
6. anal intercourse [male/male, male/female]
7.
8. biting
9. breast stimulation
10. breathplay (yeah he. he's okay with this. he's really okay with this)
11.
12. casual but titillating nudity
13. crossdressing (gigantic tick!!)
14. cunnilingus
15. dubcon [‘dubious consent’] (he'd really rather not but it's not ABSOLUTE WHOA NO)
16. electro stimulation
17.
18. exhibitionism or voyeurism
19. extreme age differences [15+ years]
20. fellatio
21. fingering [vagina/anal]
22.
23.
24. frottage [clothes on]
25. geriatrophila [sexual fetishization of the extremely elderly] (...he's not sure how to look at this. does he count as 'extremely elderly'? what exactly does this mean)
26. graphic striptease
27.
28. handjob
29.
30. kissing
31. light bondage [i.e.- handcuffs, scarves, light rope, blindfolds.]
32. masturbation
33. mild bloodplay
34. mutual masturbation
35. necking/making out with body contact
36.
37.
38.
39. non-friendly hugging (what does this mean?? he doesn't know)
40. non-graphic sexual situations [i.e.- sex descriptions that have little to no detail/one character has an erection/‘fade to black’, etc.]
41. oral/anal stimulation [with a barrier or dental dam]
42.
43.
44. pegging [female penetration of a male with a strap-on]
45. piercing
46. rimming [without a barrier/dam] (this seems unpleasant and he wouldn't do it himself but it's not a WHOA NO)
47. scarification/infliction of disfiguring scars (unsettling but not a complete no...unless you touch his fingers then he's like /NO BUTTON)
48.
49.
50. shibari/heavy bondage
51.
52.
53. sounding [penetration of the urethra with a foreign object]
54. tattooing
55. tentacles
56. tongue-involved kissing
57. torture
58. touching/stroking [clothes on]
59.
60. use of sex toys [dildos, vibrators, corn, etc.] (seriously though he really likes using toys! especially ones with actual handheld controls for shenanigans.)
61.
62. accidental stimulation [proximity and friction; involuntary arousal; situations of adrenaline and reflexes]
63. begging or offering [begging or pleading for mercy, for sexual release, to be taken; a character offering himself; neediness] (oh boy is he happy to beg, especially if it's asked or demanded of him. he is eager to please!)
64. breath (as a caress; hitching or ragged; indrawn breath or gasps; sighs)
65.
66. clumsiness [awkwardness; overeagerness; during sex or in general]
67. discomfort during sex [rough edge of a table as counterpoint to pleasure; cold stone versus hot flesh; position is uncomfortable at first but then becomes perfect; penetration is painful, then pleasurable]
68. mirrors
69. noise [screaming or yelling during sex; whimpering or sobbing; purring, growling; slurping or moaning enthusiastically during blow-jobs] (he'd be very distressed and would stop immediately if there were legitimately upset noises involved, but he doesn't mind noise in general)
70. pain [with or without pleasure/endorphins] (he's alright with small amounts of pain but he vastly prefers pleasure. not a complete no, however!)
71.
72. restraint [pinning someone down; pushing someone's arm up behind their back during sex; covering or clasping someone's hands to prevent movement] (he likes his partners to have free movement, so he won't do it to others, but he's perfectly happy to have it done to him. it's a little bit of a turn-on!)
73. sexual movements [back arching; hips lifting; thrusting back; writhing, jerking, bucking; clenching; grinding or rocking; trembling or shivering; hooking legs around shoulders; pressing someone's legs back toward the bed; riding someone's fingers]
74. smarm [intense friendship with physical closeness but no actual sex]
75. vampires